I used to skip school and head into New Haven to hang out. I was in high school with nothing to do, to much time and a lot of curiosity about my world. One on my hang outs was place called The Crown Theater. Yeah it was one of "those" theaters, the one's with the big XXX on the marquis. I was 17, 6ft2, 200 pounds, hair down to my butt and a porn star stache. Lots of testosterone and attitude, covering a complete bewilderment at the world. I came from a seriously broken home, we'll get to that later. I had been going there since I was 15 and got left alone..I growled well in those days. Pissed if no one came onto me but equally pissed/confused if they did. I was sitting there watching a movie when someone put his leg against the back of my seat, got my hair caught and tugged on in. I pulled it loose and went back to my movie. A few minutes later it happened again. Looking behind me I muttered something and pulled my hair loose again. It happened again.
I got up, went to take a leak and moved to a different seat. A few minutes later it happened again. Pissed I got up, turned around and said something to the affect of stop being an asshole or we can take this outside. His reply was "We can do that, but I would much rather go for a ride on my bike, smoke a joint and talk"
We did that. Ans I saw him every single day of my life after that for the next 7 years. I was 17, he was 24. They went by so quickly.
Monday, November 29, 2010
1970
Evening
This is my life. I have spent the last 30 years living with a ghost. He was with me every day, we talked and laughed. He gave me advise and listened to me when no one else would. He was a real person that lost his life in a foolish stupid accident. I loved him, he was the first person to love me, take my faults and let them go.
He taught me how to be a man. How to fight and how to love. To accept responsibility for myself and my actions. How to let go of fear and move past it. He showed me how to experience new things..I was a country boy from way out in the woods. How to drive a standard and how to look people in the eye when I shook their hand. How to look at my anger as just another emotion that I could learn to control.
I am not sure how long I will keep this going. I am finally letting go of him. You will, if you follow this for any length of time, find out what makes me tick. What makes me a good friend and a bad enemy. How sounds and songs trigger memories and how books saved my life.
Coming into the holidays as we are now this might not be the best time to do this , but, WTF....I am alone in this big old house..just me and a bottle of Jack and Tom Rush on the cd player.
Let the story begin................................
This is my life. I have spent the last 30 years living with a ghost. He was with me every day, we talked and laughed. He gave me advise and listened to me when no one else would. He was a real person that lost his life in a foolish stupid accident. I loved him, he was the first person to love me, take my faults and let them go.
He taught me how to be a man. How to fight and how to love. To accept responsibility for myself and my actions. How to let go of fear and move past it. He showed me how to experience new things..I was a country boy from way out in the woods. How to drive a standard and how to look people in the eye when I shook their hand. How to look at my anger as just another emotion that I could learn to control.
I am not sure how long I will keep this going. I am finally letting go of him. You will, if you follow this for any length of time, find out what makes me tick. What makes me a good friend and a bad enemy. How sounds and songs trigger memories and how books saved my life.
Coming into the holidays as we are now this might not be the best time to do this , but, WTF....I am alone in this big old house..just me and a bottle of Jack and Tom Rush on the cd player.
Let the story begin................................
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